my intern asked if my pregnancy was planned
A reader writes:
I’m pregnant with my first baby. I’m simply ending my first trimester and have been sharing the information with colleagues.
I’m questioning what, if something, I ought to do in response to my intern’s response. Like everybody else I handle, I instructed her one-on-one behind closed doorways. Her response was actually odd — she asked if the pregnancy was planned. (For the file, I’m in my late 30s.) I was so shocked within the second that I didn’t even know the way to reply. I believe I’ll have simply laughed it off. The extra I give it some thought, although, I’m questioning if I ought to discuss to her about her response and clarify how inappropriate that query (or actually any query associated to a pregnancy!) is. She comes from a fairly sheltered background, so this would possibly simply be her genuinely not understanding that this isn’t an applicable response. Do you suppose I ought to say one thing, or simply let it go?
I reply this query — and two others — over at Inc. right this moment, the place I’m revisiting letters which have been buried within the archives right here from years in the past (and generally updating/increasing my solutions to them). You can learn it right here.
Other questions I’m answering there right this moment embody:
- My firm’s branded clothes doesn’t match everybody
- My enterprise journey is filled with exhausting cost-cutting
